Cute Shoes

If you recall, I have this knack for cute shoes. I think it could be partially genetic–a family trait that naturally flows throughout my genes, much like my love of coffee and good reads. The artistic eye for cute shoes is also a key conversation starter with strangers. “Cute shoes!” I say honestly and enthusiastically while waiting in long, slow lines at the store. Time suddenly seems to quicken its pace and before you know it, your engaged conversation is ending.

Even though this intrigue of fashion is still very much part of how I complete my wardrobe for the day, it is not as much of an importance of appearance anymore as it is sturdy convenience–although at this point in time, I can argue the fact that it doesn’t matter what is on my feet…I am still prone to ankle twists, bad balance and falling: thus, I still own a pair of cute slip-on shoes that I save for special occasions, just like my bag of make-up. (Secret! 😉 )

Because I realize that my walking is declining and my bones are fragile (it is a miracle that I am even walking, let alone have not broken any bones during my falling episodes), I am trying to take the appropriate steps in safety by wearing regular shoes–except that I can’t physically tie shoes due to my hand conditions. My physical therapist had mentioned last Fall during one of my PT sessions that there was a shoe and leather repair store, in which she recommended to her patients. This store specializes in shoe adjustments as well as repairs. My adjustments would be removing the shoe laces and getting Velcro straps.

“Sounds old-timer fashion,” my first thoughts concluded. (No offense meant to my elderly readers.) But when I received my pair of tennis shoes back, I actually think that they are kind of cute. 🙂



Remember how exciting it was as a kid when you first learned how to tie your own shoes? My Velcro straps enabled me to re-experience that simple childhood joy.

The Sovereign LORD is my strength! He makes me as surefooted as a deer, able to tread upon the heights. Habakkuk 3:19, NLT


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7 responses to “Cute Shoes

  1. A.B.

    I think they’re super cute too!

    • mel

      And as much as I like my cute and “sturdy sandals,” there is no funky rubber at the end to trip me. haha. I don’t know the sandal official name, but they are like the sandals you wear…the outdoor trek sort. 🙂

  2. Lois

    They are very cute! (Maybe add some hot pink socks!)

  3. Some of us at church were talking about not wearing high heels anymore. Mine goes as far as mostly wearing Birkenstocks and something that is sturdy. I do have a pair of shoes with lower heels for special occasions (like weddings that are inside a church), but I feel so much better when I have protection from falling. The funny part is that I didn’t realize how many other women felt the same way. My dad was a Chiropractor and he told us that a good shoe (without a high heel) is the best thing you can do for your back (although walking barefoot was even better.) Thanks Daddy for the advice and thanks for sharing Melinda….pink socks would look really cute with your tennis shoes:)

    • mel

      I have never been able to wear high heels, but I wore a lot of flip-flops in the day and those can be just as bad. I totally prefer bare feet–even over sturdy shoes. 😉

  4. Megan

    I’ve always thought every pair of shoes you’ve ever owned have beens stylish;) I’m glad to hear that the velco straps are helping you experience joy in being able to “tie” your own shoes!! Love you tons my sweet sis ~Megs

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