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“Thank you all, and Merry Christmas!!”

My two friends from childhood just visited me last weekend. We did a lot of fun things, like painting our nails, hand scrubs, eating dinner together, or watching football (they watched and kept me updated of all positions and scores by writing letters on my arm) and even met another Santa and Mrs. Claus! They even had elves that took our pictures! We also enjoyed a lot of time talking and catching up on our other friends and obviously catching up on the current news and talked about their families and my family. Since Christmas is just around the corner, we started talking about Christmas songs and other fun memories. And of course, Christmas movies that gave us a lot of laughs.

When I get done saying my prayers and singing a song that I remember, all the Christmas movies will come to mind. Among the many, you have Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer, Elf, Veggie Tales: The Toy that Saved Christmas, and the clay animated version of The Little Drummer Boy. Mom would record some off television. When I was younger, I enjoyed Frosty the Snow Man, Winnie the Pooh and Christmas Too, and Peggy Fleming the ice skater and Mickey and Minnie Mouse. Oh, how I enjoyed the ice skating show! They would have the medalist of that year’s Olympics skate to the Christmas songs. Scott Hamilton skating to The Twelve Days of Christmas could not have been skating any better. Then you had the classics: White Christmas, Miracle on 34th Street, It’s a Wonderful Life and A Charlie Brown Christmas. And let’s not forget Jim Henson’s Muppets Christmas movies.

Out of all the Christmas movies I have seen, the Muppets are my favorite. My all time favorite Christmas movie is A Muppet Family Christmas. This includes all the Muppets from the other shows like Sesame Street (which means Elmo was there) to even Fraggle Rocks. This is classic humor. There are so many great scenes and lines as all the characters gather at the farmhouse of Fozzie Bear’s mother for Christmas. This movie often comes to mind because in one of the scenes, the Sesame Street characters are putting on a play Twas the Night Before Christmas for the others. Ernie and Bert are narrating. Ernie says, “Not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse.” Out pops Grover from behind the curtains. He is wearing a hat with mouse ears on his head and is holding an empty bowl with a spoon. Ernie and Bert are staring at him then Grover goes on to explain that he is NOT stirring and note how the hand never touches the spoon. I find this particularly funny because one of my communication objects is a wooden spoon, which tells me when it is time to eat. Because my hands are getting really numb and it is hard to hold things or to even know what some of the other objects are, I could probably hold up the wooden spoon because I can feel it and I am NOT stirring!

The other favorite movie is The Muppets Christmas Carol. Obviously this year is different, so out goes the tradition of watching it with my family on Christmas Eve. I don’t know how the tradition started—maybe it was when I was little I remember going to the Christmas Eve service and hanging around town admiring all the Christmas lights. When we got home we would eat some snacks and watch the movie before singing our favorite Christmas Carols around the Christmas tree before heading off to bed. I will not be going to the Christmas Eve service this year and I cannot even see the lights hanging in my room, but because I can probably quote the movie from start to finish, Christmas eve I will just ask for a snack and then replay the movie in my mind.

Most everyone knows that Ebenezer Scrooge is “bah humbug”, cold hearted and negative with his ways and words. Christmas Eve he goes home and things start to happen. Gonzo narrates and takes the role of Charles Dickens with Rizzo hanging as his sidekick. Scrooge, played by a real man, becomes scared as the doorknocker transforms into the like of Bob Marley, his deceased partner, warning him of the ghost that will soon visit. Scrooge is soon inside having a bite to eat by the fireplace in his best gown and nightcap. This doesn’t stop the ghost of Bob Marley of telling Scrooge of his doom. Just like they are now in chains, he will be too unless he changes his ways. He will be visited by three spirits tonight starting at the stroke of the clock striking one. Scrooge falls asleep, but at 1 a.m. the Spirit of Christmas Past appears. Looking more like a fine doll, she takes Scrooge to his past. He watches himself grow up and goes to the part where he asks for a job. The Muppet, Fozzie Bear, plays the role of Scrooge’s first boss, but now his name is Fozzie Wig. He is now hosting his annual Christmas Eve party. The young Scrooge thinks that Fozzie Wig is overriding his expenses and tells him. Fozzie Wig tells him that it is Christmas time and it is the spirit of generosity. Then they are in Fozzie Wig’s factory and Fozzie Wig wants to make his annual speech. Everyone gets quiet because in pops Animal and yells “QUIET!!” Fozzie Wig makes an announcement that he has to make a speech. He pulls out a piece of paper and seriously he reads . . . “Thank you all and Merry Christmas!” The “Marley” brothers are up in the balcony and give their comment about the speech . . . Fozzie made a great speech . . . let’s dance. Then, you see the Muppet couples and real people start to dance.

I want this to be my Christmas card to you. I used to love sending out oodles of cards to my friends and all my extended family. I am blessed to have people help me write my cards, Facebook messages, emails and phone text for me. From the last post, I said things would be different and just thinking about Christmas cards reminded me of all of you. I wanted to say THANK YOU for all the encouragement, love, prayers, gifts and visits you have given me this past year! I have reflected on my past although I would have never expected to be in a nursing home, I have seen how God has prepared me for this time even with the heartaches, hardships and changes. It was a great year with so many memories. So thank you all from old friends to my new friends to my family and loved ones and those reading this randomly for the first time! Have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

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Different . . . But HOPE Remains

Different . . . that’s how things are these days! As the fall season ended and the holidays start approaching, I knew that things would be different. But, just how different things would be is something I couldn’t comprehend. Even starting with Thanksgiving typical traditions all seemed to be thrown out the window. But that doesn’t mean that “different” is bad . . . you just have to see things from a different perspective.

It all started the week before Thanksgiving when we were kindly reminded by a resident here that the community dinner was to be held the Monday before Thanksgiving. I asked my Dad why they do this and he said it’s so families could celebrate on their own Thanksgiving Day. This made sense to me. So the week before Thanksgiving, mom picked my outfit and my aide curled my hair getting my fancy for the dinner. Mom joined me that night as all the residents met in the dining hall for a simple turkey, green beans, mashed potatoes and gravy dinner. Even though it wasn’t ‘homemade’ or warm pumpkin pie with a dollop of cool whip, we did end with a big serving of pumpkin pie! Pumpkin pie is delicious no matter how it is served!

Two days later, my sister, Megan, flew in to visit for a week. We enjoyed talking and painting together before the family left for the weekend to visit Melissa, David and baby Landon. I’m really glad they got to visit them, but with no company around I started to get a little bored.

When the family returned, we did more fun activities like a Mary Kay facial and painted nails. The best part was on Wednesday . . . I got to go home! A transport van came while my Hospice aide bundled me up and followed from behind in her car. I enjoyed talking more with my sisters and got to hold my cat, Muffy, on my lap! They said he was purring but I couldn’t feel it, but it was special anyway.

When dinner finally rolled around, my aide helped feed me. Marcia asked if I wanted some mashed potatoes. I quickly declined the mashed and any green beans. Instead, I wanted the corn pudding, stuffing, sweet potato casserole and cranberry sauce . . . and of course, the turkey! There was a little break, and then we had pumpkin pie. Soon after, the transport van came to get me. I did enjoy mom’s homemade pumpkin pie with a couple dollops of cool whip.

When I came back, I was greeted by the aides and nurses giving me my medicines. In my mind, I told myself, “welcome back to reality.” Megan and Dad came so I could say goodbye to Megan, as she was to leave very early the next morning, which was Thanksgiving Day. As I sat waiting for them, I sat and reflected on how much work it was for me to go home. As much as I still want to be at home, I know this is where God wants me to be. In those special times and memories, I remember I have much to be thankful for. Since we celebrated Thanksgiving early, when Thanksgiving day did come, it didn’t really feel like it.

Over the weekend, my sister, Marcia, came to help decorate my room for Christmas! She hung up lights and put up my nativity set. She hung garland, Christmas ornaments and curly ribbon. As she was decorating, we were discussing Christmas memories which I remembered a few fun memories from college days. One year, my roommates and I hung up socks in our dining room. Since I don’t have a stocking at the nursing home, Marcia helped me pick out a festive M&M sock. She hung it above my bed and I make it a point to tell everyone to look at my “stocking”! My favorite though was that she came back after she made a tree out of bows! I can’t see any of this, but just knowing my room is decorated gives the upcoming Christmas season a bit of cheer.

Just like Thanksgiving, traditional Christmas just won’t be the same. Things will still be busy with parties, people visiting, people caroling, but I won’t be there, I won’t be baking Christmas cookies with mom or going Christmas shopping and wrapping presents. I won’t be at the Christmas Eve service or driving around afterward looking at people’s fancy decorated lights on their houses. I won’t be watching Muppet’s Christmas Carol movie on Christmas Eve or enjoying Dad’s delicious French toast that we would enjoy with several cups of coffee. I won’t be listening to Dad reading the Gospel of Luke Chapter 2 Christmas Story, but I did ask Dad to come in and write it on my arm. You see the things are different, since Thanksgiving, my body has changed, but that doesn’t stop the Christmas season from coming. In Dr. Suess’ book The Grinch that stole Christmas, the little Who’s down in Whoville were preparing for Christmas. Very much in the same Christmas ways, they buy presents, wrap them, decorate the tree and stock their refrigerators for the feast. Christmas Eve, we find them all asleep, but only Cindy Lou Who meets the Grinch. In his disguise as Santa, tells her the tree lights need fixing, giving her a glass of water and patting her on the head, he sent her back to bed. Waking up Christmas morning, the Who’s discover the Grinch had taken everything, but they still met and sang together. Why? Because the joy of Christmas Day was there and they welcomed it!

Sitting here in my chair, I feel that my spinning darkness and new tremors and nerve related issues could act somewhat like the Grinch. Then I get cards of encouragement from family and friends, and it gives me HOPE to press on. Then I remember that Christmas time is still coming—this brings back the joy and hope of Christmas. That’s the real reason why I celebrate Christmas because Joy came to the World through God’s only son, Jesus.

 

“Christmastime”

Lyrics by Michael W. Smith

Ring Christmas bells

Ring them loud with the message bringing

Peace on the earth

Tidings of good cheer

Come carolers

Come and join with the angels singing

Joy to the world

Christmas time is here again

Children gather around and listen

You’ll hear the sound

Of angels filling the sky

Telling everyone

Christmas time is here

Ring Christmas bells

Ring them loud with the message bringing

Peace on the earth

Tidings of good cheer

Come carolers

Come and join with the angels singing

Joy to the world

Christmas time is here again

Loved ones close to our hearts

and strangers in lands afar

Together share in the joy

Emmanuel

To tell the world

He has come to dwell

The time is near

With one voice

Let the world rejoice

Christmas time is here

Ring Christmas bells

Ring them loud with the message bringing

Peace on the earth

Tidings of good cheer

Come carolers

Come and join with the angels singing

Joy to the world

Christmas time is here again

Children gather around and listen

You’ll hear the sound

Of angels filling the sky

It’s Christmas time is here again

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